Being that sparkling gem in the eyes of guys works wonders for most of us and, of course, also acts as an esteem boost. But sometimes in order to impress him, Girls tend to go overboard with their methods. Here are a few things that guys hate mostly in girls.
1. Complaining
Okay, so maybe your next door neighbor is a pain in the neck but when all you do is complaining about it 24×7, the case tends to change. We all hate someone who complains too much. So let’s put the complaining to the minimum because it isn’t really impressing anyone.
2. Asking for money
Guys like to be girls to be independent, even financially. That is why, they expect a girl to never ask for money from them. Of course, once in a while it’s fine to lend money, especially if it is an emergency. But constantly asking for money is complete turn off. So, avoid asking or pestering them for money.
3. Flirting with other guys
They too have feelings, you know! Avoid giving those welcoming looks to other guys as it tends to make your guy feel insecure. He might feel vulnerable and may even go away from you.
4. Being submissive
Just because you’re a girl, it doesn’t mean that you have to always submit yourself to a guy. Guys like the occasional challenge that their girl offers and will get bored with the lack of it. So, don’t just accept everything he tells, once in a while fight for what you think is right.
5. Backbiting
Perhaps your best friend just cheated on you and all you can do the whole day is backbite about her. Not exactly a habit in the good books of the guys. They hate to have to hear it all the time. Keep it on the low and maybe also try to ask for solutions from your guy. Let the conversation be interactive.
6. Having high expectations
Don’t have too many high expectations about him. Don’t always expect him to do all the work. If your guy doesn’t live up to it, you’ll be depressed and he’ll be irritated!
7. Insecurity
Guys hate it when all girls can do is talk about how something about them isn’t perfect. Relax! You have to stop complaining about how many split ends you have or how fat you look in that dress.
8. Baby talk
Sometimes it might sound cute but not all the time. So cut it out! Don’t go all ‘coochie coo’ on ‘teddy weddy’! Minimize on the baby talk as it can turn irritating to the worst extent.
9. Nagging
Sometimes the best thing to do is to let it go. If he makes a mistake, just let it go. Everyone makes mistakes and it would be wrong of you to keep nagging him about it.
10. Being a high maintenance girl
Every guy wants a girl who is perfect for him. Being high maintenance might just not cut the list. So ease up a little on your demands and on him.